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writes:in desperate need of help ..i will make this short by bulleting-met a great girl in 2007-we became good friends by 2008-liked each other late 2008-09-i found someone else and left her..promising i would come back one day. she waited for me until august 2010-started dating in 2010-had a mostly great relationship until we broke up 2 weeks ago becauses she felt we werent compatable. she found a guy 4 days later. How ever, she still calls me baby , calls me, and kisses me on occasions they are taking it slow but cuddle kiss and etc. she tells me he takes her mind off things(me) and makes her happy-yesterday she told me she likes him a lot. i asked her how she felt when he holds her and kisses her and she replied "not the same as it did when you did". I tell her that we need to stop talking for good because it hurts me that he is taking my place. She tells me how much it hurts her to think she will never talk to me again and that part of her wants me back but that part is just too small.SO my questions are... What do you do when you KNOW that she is still in love with you somewhere inside but is fighting it with this new guy? I am very against letting her go without a fight or atleast trying agai down the road..but i know this is unlikely. Doi have faith in her or forget about her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol thank you both for the replies..last night i gave her the impression that i didnt feel like talkin to her and WHAT DO U KNOW...i was "baby" again. lol women
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Hey pal!This womans emotions seem to be all over the place so its risky to even say what she may be thinking. Thus, could lead you to a very exhausting emotional roller coaster and on a chase. Sometimes when men chase, we get are already exhausted when we enter into the relationship so we get lazy. I wouldnt go that path man. Id stay out til this girl calms down a bit and has her head a bit more clear. In other words, wait for her to take initiative. Keep out of things til then. Good luck.
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