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Nervous and inexperienced about oral sex

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Question - (11 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Since my girlfriend and I have been going out, she has given me oral. I want to return the favor but not sure what to do besides flicker her with tongue. I'm kinda nervous and inexperienced. Please help with suggestions or instructions, does anyone have any advice?

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A male reader, Mr. Kuriosity United States +, writes (14 February 2011):

Mr. Kuriosity agony auntWhen I am going to try this for the first time with a girl I like to start by kissing her cheek, neck, and slowly move down her shoulder or down her chest of course lingering around her breasts and pausing on her nipples only for a few moments before moving down her side, all the while lightly licking and kissing, I like to kiss her navel and inside of her thighs getting closer and closer to her clitoris but just before going to work on her clitoris I like to open her "labia" and kiss the smooth area around her clit.

Flicking her clit with your tongue gently and then sucking it into you mouth and rubbing your tongue around her clit will surely cause her some enjoyment.

REMEMBER this is FUN you should enjoy this also there is no right way to start or finish, as long as she is comfortable the intensity will pick up and you could end up giving her multiple Orgasms...

another thing you could try is KY INTENSITY i have used it with great results...

I wish you The Best of a Great evening to you.

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A female reader, Pheonix1 United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2011):

1) Start slowly

2) Try 'fingering' whilst using your tongue to stimulate her clitoris

3)Try gently sucking

4)Lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris

5)Take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue

When you go to give her oral sex, kiss down her body slowly until you reach your destination :P

It also depends on what she likes whether these will be effective or not.

Enjoy and good luck!

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