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How do I plant the seed that I am interested in her?

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Question - (11 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this girl I like, we'll call her April. April and I have known each other for a while (about 6 months). I'm good friends with her roommate and that's how April and I began to hang out. Last week we had a couple days of classes cancelled because of the snow... so what do most college kids do on a snow day? You got it... have thumb wars... errr, drink. She didn't come over til later that night, after I had already been drinking most of the day.

There was a small group of us that ended up back at April's place. There, April and I kinda cuddled, and I probably would have stayed the night if my roommate wasn't there. Last night, she and I were texting and our texts were very flirty. I was getting lots of :) which I noticed she hadn't done too much in the past.

I know that she gets flirty a lot and I know to some degree (don't know exactly how much or little) she hooks up with guys. I do the same... with girls. I've been single for a while, and am looking for a relationship. My roommates and I are throwing a big party tomorrow. April will be there. Now, I don't want a relationship immediately, but I'd like to plant the seed that I'm interested in more than just flirting around and maybe a hook up here and there. How can I do this without her being turned off (if at all) because of her flirty characteristic?

Thanks!

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