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30-35,
*3puremage1
writes:I think I am crazy because I am thinking for too many times about the girl whom I love (she knows it) even though she is in a relationship with someone else.Our story started a long time ago. Last year in April,she started to get involved in my life like talk to me much more often. And then in June, she invited me to her alone to have dinner with her parents, which was something I didn't expect and a bit abnormal. I started to love her at that time but due to it was nearly the end of the school year. I was not persuaded to ask her out since I needed to go back to my own country for the summer holiday. When we started school again in September. I went to ask her out but everything was too late. At first, she did not tell me why but later I worked out it was because she met another boy who is her current boyfriend and she fancied him. That was heartbroken. Later, I still tried to get her heart and asked her the second time in November. But that didn't work so I chose to hide all my feelings, which is difficult. Afterward, she was really upset so I started to figure it out why and discover it was her current boyfriend was not asking her out. This upset her because she loves him a lot. I went up to her and listen to all those things between her and her loved one, which was painful for me but at least she felt better at that time. At night, I cried on my own since I could not control my emotions at night.In December, her boyfriend finally asked her out and I was really disappointed. Later in that month, I told her some of my feelings and she was very upset because she knows how much she has hurt me.Now, we still remained in a very close friendship like talking on chat almost every night and she asked me to go to her concert to watch her. But I started to think this is wrong because I can't move on and I believe I need to move on, which is necessary for me. Shall I move on or wait for her?
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