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writes:Is he gay? My recent ex was caught Googling a website called, "Sucking Cocks". When I asked him about it he claims that it was to watch the women doing it. Googled it I saw a lot of Gay porn. I'm not Gay Bashing, just stating the facts. The sex in our relationship became almost non existent, and when I asked him about it he would get upset. He disappearedwith his suitcase yesterday after a minor argument. He ran a lot! I think that there were some deeper issues as to why he left the way he did, no text, no phone call, no email, nada! I was really nice to this bum, maybe too nice. The minute I start asking questions or say "no" he disappears. I think I'll be ok, I just want some answers please, somebody!
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reader, lucylu31  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 I think that,you should try to asses the whole situation here,if he dosent want to talk about it with you and he left i personally think it isnt because he dosent care enough to tell you but he is just generally confused.If he is gay,or just realising it,it can be a really hard and confusing time,Just try not to worry too much,as hard as that may be and let him come to you and explain when he has his head sorted.If he dosen't then you know your better off without him.You need someone who will do anything to get you back.Just keep strong and keep a bit of hope there,don't give up completly because he's probobly killing himself for leaving you like that. If he dosent call you or see you whatever,try to move on,but in the future you will look back and realise you did the right thing by asking him instead of staying in a relationship you could never fully be certain of.Hope that helped you sweetheart.Hope it all works out x xxx x
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reader, OhGetReal +, writes (11 February 2011):
 He is emotionally unavailable for what ever reason, it really doesn't matter. Keep the door closed on this one, he is not going to change....he is what he is, not emotionally healthy enough for a real relationship with a real woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): You did the right thing and I'll think you'll be okay. Leaving over something something that trivial is childish. Had you spent more time with him, he would have found some excuse to leave. I don't think his leaving says much about you apart from your being straightfoward, but it says volumes about how he handles conflict and intimacy. How could you have a long term relationship with someone like that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): this could be a problem but let it go he could be bi
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): His explanation doesn't sound fishy, most guys look at that. I suppose he just lost interest in the relationship, it happens. More likely he was cheating with another woman if the sex dropped off.
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