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writes:I don't what to do? And top of that I don't know what it is but, I am a really likable student. Meaning all my teachers like me. This is good but it does lead to problems. Last year I formed a really close relationship with my one of my teachers. She was such a laugh. We would talk about boy's TV programmes and issues. She helped me through some really hard times. We were so close she nominated me for an award at school, because I did such fantastic homework.I was the first student she told that she was pregnant. I was over the moon for her. But this ment she would have to leave in October (it was June/July. On the last day of term I brought her a T-shirt for her unborn child, saying "I love my Mummy". I missed her desperately over the holidays. I had so many dreams and thoughts about her. When we came back to school we talked for a while about our holidays until she had to go. She left before the October half term. At the moment I am slightly over her she is still one of my fovourite teachers. Now I have two new problems firstly my Science teacher and head of year. She is so funny I spend hours laughing in her lessons, all my troubles seem to go away. I am currently having a lot of trouble with a new student he is so horrible to me and I am really pushing to get it sorted. I had just had one of my German lessons with him and I was talking to my friend about it and I got very emoutional about it. My head of year then came along and asked whats wrong and held my hand. She is currently working with me to get it sorted. This means we are spending extra time together. Last nigh was parents evening and she gave me a glowing review so much so that I was blushing fo 10 minutes! Then finally there is my English teacher. She is so lovely and an amazing teacher. She has helped me to finally get the mark I want. She, in private and confidence my mark, I had done extremely well but I couldn't tell anyone because the marks had not yet been released.All these teachers have had such a massive affect on my life. But this leaves me wondering how I feel and how I feel about them. I am so confused. It almost feels like I love them. I am always having dreams about them and I can't get them off my mind. It almost feels like I am obsessed. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI saw my English teacher today in town. She was laughing with her friends. My heart started racing and my legs felt practically like they were going to give way. It is just confusing me more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): I think you are confusing respect and admiration and friendship with romantic attraction.
Your hormones are unfortunately playing a big part in this. It's good that you have teachers who you look up to and who have an enormous affect on you.
Too often students fail because a teacher just doesn't have the ability to guide them and form friendships in this way.
Flynn 24
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