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Help!!! I'm in a fix!

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Question - (11 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2011)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I like this guy for almost two years now and I haven't mustered the courage to tell him yet.

Initially we were not very good friends and I was very shy in front of him. So I often made a fool of myself.

But over time, we've become better friends and Suddenly, a while back, we've become kind of close. Like, he likes hanging out with me, we're always together in college and we are always talking etc.

Our friends tease us together (and a lot) and he gets very conscious, but he doesn't say anything. I, most of the time laugh it off.

We've suddenly started talking a lot. But I don't know if this is reason enough to give myself any kind of hope for this thing to work out.

I'm confused. Is he attracted to me ? At times I feel he is, because there is so much body contact and we're always together, and so many times he texts me at night. But other times, I feel I might be over thinking this whole thing. Maybe we've just become better friends.

So I'm really confused ! Please help !

Also I just CAN'T tell him that I like him. Its just too hard, and after I've become close to him, I don't want to let go of this friendship. But then I can't stop liking him.

I'm in a fix !

Thanks for reading :)

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A female reader, friend for life United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2011):

friend for life agony auntthis is a tricky one as you say your good friends,what would mean more having him as a boyfriend or losing him as a friend,if its the first,ask him out.have you tried dropping hints and seeing how he responds,aso if your laughing when people are teasing you hes going to think that your not interested,good luck with this.

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