A
male
age
30-35,
*katori
writes:Dear Cupid,I met a girl about two years ago, and initially i wasn't really interested in her. But as i spent more time with her i became more and more attracted to her. Last year, late summertime, i went to her house. We were sitting in her room talking and we ended up kissing. She told me she really liked me and she was glad that this was finally happening and she'd thought about it a lot. We kissed on her bed for a while, then i had to leave. The next day we were talking and she was acting like nothing had happened, but she said she had a big secret she was going to tell everyone soon. The secret was that she had just started going out with this guy who'd been friends with her for years. From this point onwards she never mentioned what happened between us. I can't help wondering if she knew she'd be going out with him soon, or even if she was secretly going out with him already, when that happened. I decided to drop it and move on. But i haven't been able to stop liking her, which isn't helped by the fact she flirts with me all the time. She hugs me, dances with me, sits on my lap, leans aginst me all the time. And i know it sounds like she could just be being my friend, but it's definately flirty.I kissed her for a while one day last year, and months later i'm still head over heels for her and she's simultaneously not interested and massively flirty. At points it's felt like we've been very close to kissing again. What should i do? I can't get over her, but i'd never do anything with another guys girlfriend. Sometimes i feel really angry with her for treating me like this! She's making it impossible for me to ignore my feelings for her. But i can't stay angry at her precisely because i have those feelings. I know you're answers will probably tell me to ignore her and get over her, it's been a long time and nothing really happened between you! But it's hard to let her go. I guess i just wanted to write it down and talk about it, even if i probably know the answer. So yeah, what should i, or can i, do about all this? Sorry for the incoherent rambling, and thankyou in advance for any thoughts, comments or advice :)Thanks for reading,Akatori
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