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writes:I was 16 he was 19. He got a new girlfriend straight away. People tell me that im heaps prettier and shes really anoying and not supportive. I was happy because i hoped he would come back to me but its been like 2 monhs since they have been together. I'll be honest i was always there for him and nice and he would always just make me feel horrible and the last month of our relationship we were fighting every day so that kinda makes me think hes not gonna want me again but when we broke up he begged me to stay. I dunno i so confused because he told me hes loved me so much but when he met someone new striaght away hes out of love with me and loves her within a week? confusing...... Do you think that maybe when this girl doesnt seem so new he might miss me? i dunno im still hurting from what he did.. Tell me your storiesand opinons :(
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reader, lucy.whittaker  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 Hey love,
I'd say just move on. He's in a new relationship now, and it doesn't matter if you are prettier or nicer or a better girlfriend than her - he's not going to come back. And I know it's hard to accept that when you still have feelings for someone, but it's just something you're going to have to live with. You will feel better, and you will find someone new who makes you feel happier than he did. But for now, focus on other things in your life, your friends, your studies and YOURSELF :)
You're worth more than to waste time lusting over a guy who clearly didn't realise what he had when he had it.
Lucy XxX
p.s On the off-chance, if he does come crawling back, tell him where to shove it. You're worth more than a person who gets over you so fast that he's straight with someone new. It's not easy, I know that feeling, but imagine how amazing it would be to be that strong, independent woman who can do better than some sloppy seconds ex. Be strong!
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