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female
age
30-35,
*ishiteru
writes:I met this guy, about 4 months ago at this university and I actually like him. We hang up for a day but sadly that day has to end. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. and I have to leave the city, I have to get back home. like him. But we didn't lose communication and texted a lot. And I got to the point where i actually more than like him. He courted me, but I told him to wait. cause we'll probably gonna see again in college. I'm very serious about that. i even prank a joke to get himself a girlfriend while were long distance(that was suppose to be a JOKE). then I found out he's hooking with other girls. I was so angry and I felt betrayed. I stopped texting him but I act as if like I don't care. and then, the girl became his girlfriend. and that made me more furious. so I planned for revenge, but it didnt worked. so I just gave up.its been 4 months now, and we still have communications (long distance) he's still in a relationship with the girl. but then told me he loves me and said he WAITED. i so hated him when he said he waited. (in my side, i dont think getting himself a girlfriend is waiting for me).but man, I cant get him out of my system. I keep on thinking of him. my friends warns me to stop all my connections to him. I tried, really I tried. I wanna move on. But I can't. cause everytime we talk, he always makes me fall for him. he said he love being with me, and can't wait to be with me in college. and damn, god knows how much I missed him. I'm dying to be with him in college. and he says he's gonna FIX everything for us.but then my parents had this sudden change of plans, their sending me to a different college, away from him. and I understand them why, Im gonna stay there for just a year before the can sent me to the college Ive chosen (with him).now, I dont know what to to do.should i tell him he still has to wait for one more year?or should i just cut all communications to him just like what my friends wants me to do.and man, I love him. I'm very confuse and all.I wanna be with him this year, but I freakin can't!and I dont know if i should still believe his words.though he's been TOTALLY honest with me since the first day.what should i do?HELP PLEASE. BEGGING.
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reader, aishiteru +, writes (22 April 2011):
aishiteru is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u so much.
I'm still struggling to get him out of my mind.. but I know in time or so I'll be able to move on.
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reader, garcypher  +, writes (21 April 2011):
Sometimes long distance relationships don't work even when the people in question are married. At your ages I cant see any of you waiting another year when you will be so preoccupied with your own lives. It is time to move on. There will will be plenty of new people you will both meet. It sounds more like a crush than true love. And he waiting around from what you have said.
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