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writes:Hi, i have a boyfriend and he is bi sexual and i really don't like dating bi sexual guys. But I really do like him. Should I continue to date him?? Reply to this Question
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reader, BlackOakTree +, writes (1 May 2011):
If you like him as much as you say you do, why does his sexuality matter at all? That doesn't change who he is as a person, just his tastes in a partner. If he likes you and enjoys being in a relationship with you, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. I am a bisexual female and have dated (at least) 2 bisexual males. Sexuality shouldn't matter as long as the two of you are happy.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 April 2011):
 if a key aspect of his sexuality bothers you then no you should not date him... it will only get worse as the honeymoon phase of the relationship wans...be friends with him....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): If his sexuality is a turn off but you like him. Just keep him as a friend. I couldnt date someone whos bi because i have enough trouble worrying the other half might run off with another woman. Dating someone who is bi, doubles the number of folk they could be tempted to run off with! Also, id be worried he might decide one day thats hes gay and really only interested in men. And id also wonder if he would be tempted sometimes to have casual encounters with men while with me. Too many variables. Just ask for his friendship. Then no matter what he ends up doing, he can still be in your life but without the concerns.
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (22 April 2011):
Dating Rule # 1: Don't date someone who has sex with someone other than you.
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reader, llifton +, writes (22 April 2011):
 well obviously only you can truly answer that for youself. but if i were you, i would haul ass. in my opinion, bisexual tendencies are usually just a stepping stone to gayness. coming from someone who "used to be bi" when i was 20, i know how it is. i only claimed bisexuality simply as a means of maintaining what i viewed as clinging to "normalcy." of course, that's not always true for everyone. there are some TRUE bisexuals. but at this point in my life, i wouldn't be comfortable dating a person who wasn't sure what sex they preferred.
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