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female
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30-35,
*unkissed29
writes: Hello,I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We have a really great relationship, with so many fun times. We even went through a year of long distance relationship, when I was at another school far away. We went through a lot. Good times, bad times, you name it. We have always been faithful to each other. I know that this is normal in all relationships, but things are getting more routine with us. I hear so many things about relationships falling apart because either one or both people in the relationship begin to get bored or fall out of love. I am afraid that this might happen to us someday. How do I avoid this, and what are some things I can do to prevent the routineness from completely taking over? I understand that there's going to be routine in everything, but I don't want it to drain out the passion in our relationship. Thank you for your time.
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reader, HZ1NONLY +, writes (22 April 2011):
if you're afraid its goin to happen to you (being bored and everything is going to be routine), then you probably feeling it already.... you can't prevent it. you can't help the way you feel! excitement dies sometimes, because you get to know each other and its not new no more, but if you really love someone, then somehow you'll find a way to make it work.
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