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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so one of my friends has a huge crush on a guy that likes me. She's not my best friend or anything like that, just a friend. She (lets call her H) has liked this guy, L, since the beginning of the year. She talks about him all the time and how cute and nice he is. He likes me. All of my friends tell me about how he stares at me and even one of his best friends told me he liked me. She is convinced he likes her cuz L's other best friend (he one of those guys who thinks its funny to ask out girls for other guys, call him A) asked H out for L. She isn't the most attractive person, she can be seriously annoying, and it was obviously a joke. She said no, but she thinks he was serious. Last night, after being yet again told that L likes me, H texted me, saying that she loves L. I feel horrible. I don't like L at all, but he likes me. N H "loves" him. I doubt she honestly does love him, but i still feel bad. And on top of that, she wants to ask A if he likes her while pretending to be me. I know she'll be crushed, what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you i really appreciate it. Me and some friends got together and convinced her that asking him out or asking A if he liked her was a bad idea. She still is convinced he likes her, but no one really has the heart to say anything. After reading this, we've all decided next time we should be as honest as possible. Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): Since she trusts and confines in you ,don't do anything about the guy liking you stay away from him . you don't really have a problem you don't like him, so just let her be and let him continue to like you but don't ask him out or take part in humiliating her. She will come to her senses and realize that she doesn't like her, and he might! you never know what he's thinking but for now since your not interested in him and she's your friend try to spare her feelings and keep being supportive in any way you can. and maybe if she asks "do you think he likes me?" or something along those lines just tell her your honest opinion "honestly i don't see it." or something along those lines.hope everything works out! :)
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