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writes:So theres this guy I know because his girlfriend goes to my school and he hangs out there waiting for her so we've talked more than a few times then. He later told me he's bi and a little confused, and tn he texted me.Idk what to make of this, because I mean, I dont know what he wants in me, a friend, someone to answer questions, something sexual? Idk, but he's not openly bi, so that little factoid is between him and me. But also after he texted me that we ran into each other at my school again and I felt awkward so I kinda hurried away. Now he might b pissed at me, based on the tone of our most recent texts, but idk reallyI don't know what to do, communication-wise, action-wise, anything! And what about his gf, should he tell her? Oh I forgot I'm openly gay so that might clarify some things, I don't understand girl-guy relationships so well...
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reader, aaringurl  +, writes (21 April 2011):
Wee... he could really be into you. And at the same time, be totally confused.. We just don't know! Is the girl your friend? or just a schoolmate? Oh, be careful too of what that guy had said to you. You must be extra vigilant on sweet talks cuz you never know which are true. He possibly be just foolin' around with you, and seeing if you'd fall easily down his rat cage, so keep your eyes open!Be wary of how you place yourself. Open gay people such as us are usually, easily misunderstood. His girlfriend might notice something fishy between you two, adding the fact that your open, it might cause a bit of a stir. So, if you really like the guy, and he's really into you, he has to choose at some point. Don't let budding feelings get the most of you, we don't want to ruin relationships as much as we don't want them to ruin ours right? So as of now, mind over heart. ^.^
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