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*illyB92
writes:Hi.Recently I've been gone through a lot of dumb stuff with my boyfriend.. we broke up 3 times already but next day we just get together 'cause there is something in the relationship that just keeps us together..But recently his ex(they was together around December) have been texting me that I'm being fooled and such.. and she knew A LOT about me that I didn't tell anyone else but my boyfriend.I've been through six bad relationships and it just made me jealous over nothing.. she knew my name, age and location and what I've been through and such.. and she said a lot of things that he could have said but wouldn't tell me because it would hurt me..When I showed him what she wrote to me he just laughed a little and said she's lying.. is she jealous or is she still with him or something? I'm so confused and really I just wanna leave but can't since I'll miss him tomorrow..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 April 2011):
But all the apologies are meaningless if you two can't work it out without breaking up. To be honest, it just seems like he treats you as he pleases, and you allow it. A relationship doesn't work this way, and all you do is make it worse for yourself.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 April 2011):
 You two broke up three times and he's been discussing you with his ex and going into personal detail about your life? Understand that your name, age, and location is something that can easily be pulled from the internet. If she has access to his Facebook and you're on it, she can find out a lot about you.However, if he's discussing PERSONAL things about you like sexual past and history, that is a deal breaker.I'd say drop the guy and don't let yourself miss him, because he's playing you for a fool.
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reader, LillyB92 +, writes (21 April 2011):
LillyB92 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@caringguy.Every time we breaks up he always come to me apologizing for what he did.. and it's minor things.. but.. I don't know honestly.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 April 2011):
Exactly what Dirtball says. He knows because he tells her, and it's become clear that you're two people who shouldn't be together. A couple that truly love each other, respect each other and are mature together do not break up over and over again.
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reader, LillyB92 +, writes (21 April 2011):
LillyB92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dunno.. cus I really love him and I know I'll miss him tomorrow ;s..
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 April 2011):
 She knows that stuff because he tells her. Break the make up/break up cycle. You'll never really be happy if you keep it up.
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