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writes:I'm 35 my husband in 52 he has Ed so we only have sex once a month. I masturbate often so he calls me a pervert i have tried to make him understand once a month is not enough. He won't go see a doctor and thinks I should be happy with things the way they are I talk to him about my frustration, am I being unreasonable. I think about having an affair but I know that would be wrong.what should I do?I don't want to get a divorce over this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011): Hey lady,
have some mercy at your husband. he is already at 52 +. I feel you should not react as sharp as you are. it is pretty normal. Most of the time husbands have problems with their wife in sexual act, and problem is reverse. but it does not mean husbands should start cheating.
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reader, krit  +, writes (21 April 2011):
 Everyone knowns men have five times more testosterone level than women. It motivates men to have sex as much as possible. It's highest when they are in their late teens and early 20's. At this peak it's impossible for them hold on sex. Women's Peak starts around their early thirties. Libido increases upto 3 times. So now you would be feeling as horny as 20 year old male. This is the reason why older women have affairs with younger guys. But I don't suggest you to have an affair as it would take you nowhere. Use sex toys, masturbate with him, make out with him. Mens sex drive decrease with their age as testosterone levels drops . So it's unreasonable for him that you want more sex as he's pleased with Whatever he's getting. It's not him it's biology. Make him understand this. Make him read this post. Make him to visit a doctor. If he loves you then he would surely understand your needs .
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): Having sexual desires doesn't make you a pervert; it's part of nature!
However, why are you thinking of having an affair if you KNOW it's wrong? How can you justify that?
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