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*olly_Dolly
writes: I am going to try and make this as simple as I can because I tend to waffle on. I like someone a lot at the moment and he is part of my reenactment group. Next Saturday, him, me and two other boys from the group are going to Norfolk for a camp. Only one night. The only problem I have is I am not sixteen until mid-may and he is 21. What makes it worse is we have been flirting like anything and I know he has a soft spot for me. I wonder if anyone can give me advice or even better, any tips for how to make something happen. If you know what I mean. I would be so grateful Bolly Dolly x
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reader, Bolly_Dolly +, writes (22 April 2011):
Bolly_Dolly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionForgot to mention this. I am not a virgin and I do regret losing it young. I'm sorry I didn't make it clear but I didn't mind go for it full on just maybe a kiss or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): I say don't do it because you are in the mood but rather save yourself for someone that's worth all of you - and generally, that means wait until you are married. Do you honestly think that he would go and do it with you because he's interested in you like he's in love with you? More or less, if he respects you, he wouldn't do it with you and I hope he doesn't because he should know better than to do it with anyone that's vulnerable and young. You should be more or less thinking of what you want to do when you graduate from school. What kind of life do you want to live? Work? Travel? It shouldn't be if you can get it on with him.
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (22 April 2011):
The only advice I can give you is waiting until you are 16 (if that's the age in your country). Because doing something before will turn it a felony. And anyone could put him in jail within seconds if reports the incident to the police.
If you take the time a read over the net about other people experiences you will see a lot of people regrets having lost their virginity too young. Which doesn't mean you will regret it, but you can't be certain. So there is no need to rush into it.
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