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*unkissed29
writes:Hello,I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We have a really great relationship, with so many fun times. We even went through a year of long distance relationship, when I was at another school far away. We went through a lot. Good times, bad times, you name it. We have always been faithful to each other. I know that this is normal in all relationships, but things are getting more routine with us. I hear so many things about relationships falling apart because either one or both people in the relationship begin to get bored or fall out of love. I am afraid that this might happen to us someday. How do I avoid this, and what are some things I can do to prevent the routineness from completely taking over? I understand that there's going to be routine in everything, but I don't want it to drain out the passion in our relationship. Thank you for your time.
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reader, sunkissed29 +, writes (22 April 2011):
sunkissed29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, Minou! I am always making efforts to keep our love alive. I am also trying to adjust. I just hope that he's making the same efforts because sometimes he tends to get absorbed in his own daily routine and busy life, which is fine with me, as long as he is still maintaining the relationship and not allowing it to sink into a boring and lifeless thing.
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reader, Minou  +, writes (21 April 2011):
I agree with you that at first love seems to be like a rose, full scented one.But as time passes only, its thorns is visible. Well thats quite natural and either your partner will find fault into you or you might fault in your partner after all no one is perfect. Well, its exactly this thing that some people don't understand. They want a perfect life partner which they'll never get.Hmm, so the best way to keep the smooth going of a relationship is first of all Adjustment! When i say adjustment its not that you should bestow yourself to each and every demand of him, But do your best to keep him happy And for a successful relations, BOTH partners should adjust.Communication should also be very open. You should share everything with him. Maybe the question you have asked here you should have ask him instead. You know, communication bring closeness. By ensuring him this closeness, am sure it will be the same case for him as well. He will share everything with you then too. And remember one thing the more close you are to someone the more it hurt when he/she leaves us.Third things i would like to tell you is that never let go the sparkle of love. You know many people is really romantic, caring and loving at the start of a relation. Gradually however they seem to start losing interest in the relation. Maybe then its boring for them or Maybe their partners do not appreciate it anymore as the beginning. So keep your love fresh :) Like arranging a nice dinner candle and romantic one for both of you. and so onHope it helps (^_^)
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