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writes: so i really feel close to my teacher, like i can really trust him.i told him i needed to speak with him about something. we agreed on it. he still doesn't know what it is, its a personal matter and its really bugging me, is it a good idea to speak to him about this problem? or should i just not?
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 Go ahead, as long as you're not going to tell him that you love him and cant think of anyting else lol.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (22 April 2011):
 Teachers are there for pastoral care as well, so if as you say you can trust him and feel comfortable with him, go ahead and talk it over with him; he will be pleased to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit is really personal about the past that's bugging me now and he was my teacher for 2 years and not for this year would it still be okay to talk to him even if he isn't my teacher this year?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 OK just so long as it's nothing illegal (sexual abuse, abuse of any kind, sex life, etc...) then there's nothing to worry about. If he's OK with it, go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really trust him and he's like a really good teacher and easy to talk to and it's nothing about crime or me really in any sort of danger
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 April 2011):
Not usually a good idea. If he thinks a crime has been committed or you're in any kind of dangerous or bad situation, he is required by law to report it. It's not a good idea to talk to teachers about personal problems, it's never as private as you think it will be and it will permanently change your relationship (usually for the worse). It may also make him uncomfortable. My advice is to find someone else to talk to, friends, parents, etc... Why this teacher?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 April 2011):
 If you feel that you can talk to him then he is someone who is in a place to help students. I think that he would be someone who would give you some good advice or direct you somewhere else to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011): If he is a trustworthy person then no reason why not... Teachers are there to support their pupils' health and wellbeing :)
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