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What did this message mean?

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Question - (21 April 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *jroller14 writes:

My new Bf and I started dating a few days ago and then I got this message from him over facebook:

(slightly edited so names aren't shown)

"hey babe, you know the same day that you asked me out that my best friend did the same but after we started and idk what to do, and the reason i did not kiss you today is because that i didnt want it to be so official that you and me are dating from t (my ex bf) being behind me"

But I don't quite understand.....can you help me out?

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A female reader, noevar United States +, writes (26 April 2011):

He is saying that his best friend asked him out the same day that you did, and that he didn't want to kiss you because your ex was behind you and he doesn't want to make it officially known publicly that you're dating. If he's trying to hide it, something's up!

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A female reader, Sjroller14 United States +, writes (25 April 2011):

Sjroller14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Sjroller14 agony aunti dont understand the seccond part of the msg......was he scared of kissing me bc my ex bf was behind us?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011):

I don't understand!

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A female reader, sugar rayx United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2011):

Hes playing you sweetie

Tell him to do one

He sounds like a numpty

He cant be that into you if hes blabbering on about someone else

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (21 April 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntQuite honestly, Sjroller, all your posts confuse me. All I can say is your love life is mighty active for a 14 year old.

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2011):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntthe grammar doesn't make much sense but from what i can gather his "best friend" (some girl) asked him out on the same day you two hooked up together. now he isn't sure if he wants to be with you so thats why he didn't kiss you.

sounds to me like he is going to mess you about

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A female reader, Sjroller14 United States +, writes (21 April 2011):

Sjroller14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Sjroller14 agony auntthe (my ex bf)....thats me we wording a little...just saying it was my ex bf standing behind us.

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