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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:So this guy I 'used to' like is giving me some doubts, making me nervous.So we "met" online, we go to school together and I found him, and now we're friends on facebook. Anyways, I guessed he was gay, hit the nail on the head, he's openly gay, like me.Anyway I decided since he likes someone else I'd rather have a friend then chase someone who won't reciprocate.I inboxed him over Facebook, and he responded, so now we've been going back and forth. But now he hasn't responded in a week. I suppose my last message was awkward, but I mean I say worse with my friends, so now Im wondering if I should re-message him, or wait for him to reply, or try and talk to him in person more, or what?! I guess I'm more nervous cuz this is the first (open) gay guy I've ever met, and I'm trying to forget I ever even pondered liking him.
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reader, aaringurl  +, writes (21 April 2011):
That's nice, but I think you should refrain from doing so. He could be busy or simply not interested. And if you kind of, re-message him and stuff, he might take it the wrong way and see you as someone annoying or so chase-y(if there's such a word) sometimes, it's good to give people some space, yet, if you really liked that person, let's have our fingers crossed, cuz we never know, he, himself would message back to you one of these days... From where I came from, openly gay people flock like pancake stands .. P.S. I say you poke him on facebook... I'm soo fond of doing that, atleast to remind him you're still breathing. ^.^ ta-ta ?
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