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Girlfriend asks me out to lunch but expects ME to pay!

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Question - (21 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2011)
A male South Africa age 36-40, *ee jong writes:

i have problem. My gf of 18 months, pregnant for 8 months now and we work 2geta she said we have 2 go 4 just lunch on this cuming monday if i m off . Thats excite me very much i said and then she said u will pay and i told her i wont cause i dont have money, by the way its her idea. She said i must take her out not that she must take me out.my question is she love me on a condition?

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A male reader, Lee jong South Africa +, writes (21 April 2011):

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Lee jong agony auntthe problem is she ddnt take me out since we met its 18 months now and today she just told me she wont ever take me out . I m always taking her out wen ever i wnt 2. But now she asks me 4 a date and i told her i will love 2.But i dnt have money and she said ok we wont go. Why dont she pay 4 me if she loves me than 2 call it of?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (21 April 2011):

Honeypie agony auntShe is 8 months pregnant, cut her some slack!

FEED your pregnant GF.

But in normal circumstances I would say that if A invites B to lunch A pays. Or A and B goes Dutch paying 50/50 or their own part in the meal.

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A male reader, Jamen Somasu United States +, writes (21 April 2011):

Jamen Somasu agony auntIt sounds like she is pregnant with some other guy's kid. Dude, bail out...really! This girl simply want to use you as a meal-ticket. I am sure you can do better than that.

If you feel "sorry" for the unborn child, realize that she made her choices. Just like you have to do to make the best choice for you (and this clearly isn't it).

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A female reader, Lucky786 United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2011):

Lucky786 agony auntHow much will lunch cost? Why not have a picnic instead? You bring the main course and she brings dessert?

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