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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im a lesbian. and ive been with my gf for 2 and a half years. We were planning to move in together by the end of this month. We are both 18 and want to go to the same uni. So we were planning on flatting or rentin' an apartment.But lately my mood has changed. I get stressed for nothin'. I get angry for nothin'. We have had so many fights and it's killing me. I argue with her and i never seem to want to compromise. I get depressed for no reason. School is ending soon. is it cause of that? I do have exams coming up in two weeks.I hardly think of my exams but i have just changed. Im different. I used to be calm, quiet and i never used to swear or scream at her. But last week alone we fought 3 times. Like badly. I swore at her. and she got mad and swore at me too.We do have fights. but just little fights. silly fights. but i never swear at her. we make up like after a minute. But lately its so hard for me. Before when we fought and she hung up the phone i would call her straight away and sort it out.But lately i dont call her. I just wait for her to call me and if she doesnt i just dont care.whats wrong with me? Im fine with her. we still have our good times. Its just my mood swings. We still talk on the phone and i just came back from the movie with her.Everything is going good and we are totally fine. Nothing that dissatisfies me in this relationshipBut it just seems like something is wrong with me. I dont smoke or drink mind you. Neither do i do drugswhat can i do? can someone explain what the **** is wrong with me?also she told me that if i don't straighten up she wont move down with me. and it worries me. we have planned this for a long time. she says that if i am like this now. she is scared to think how i will be when we are living alone.please help me i really want us to move in together.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 You say that they are little fights, but little fights about what? Is there a pattern behind what you tend to fight about the most?
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