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writes: Okay. How can I get over my ex when we have to be around each other and be friends. See, My brother Is married to his Sister. Its crazy I know. But since this is the way it is. We have to be friends, which I don't mind I love being his friend. But aren't you supposed to stop being around your ex after you two broke up so you have time from each other? Its hard, since we see eachother evryday at school and at Church. I stil like him and honostly dont know why. He never hugs me anymore or even speaks to me much. But since I see him everyday, Its hard for me to get over him. I want to take time from him, but how can I without makin, my brother, his sister and his family mad at me? THey won't understand at all, and If I suddenly start avoidin him, itll get around and probaly start something. I have been tryin to avoid him, which probably isnt the right thing to do, but I see him after school. Its so hard. Can anyone help?Thank you.
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reader, Lollilocks +, writes (31 October 2010):
There's no rule that says you have to stop talking or be around your ex.You can still make time for him even if he's your ex. and if anything happens with any of those family members. have a nice talk with them. You don't have to avoid him, just when you start to think about him try to think about something else. And dont go into total melt don about this don't worry they'll understand
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