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Is 9 times too much in a day?

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Question - (31 October 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i have been dating two years and have recently become a long distance relationship. We met at a hotel between the two of us a few weeks ago and he was able to finish multiple times within only a few hours. probably about 4 times. He even admitted to "spanking the monkey" as many as 9 times in one day occasionally. I am curious as to if this is normal and if it could in anyway be dangerous to him and his amigo?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010):

haha Ive done it ten times once and surprised I havent been able to do more given im more active in the gym these days. Of course I wasnt equally hard each time and I was alone lol im sure that freaks women out anyway so its prob best I didnt do that with a girl, right? If he's in good shape, eats healthy, doesnt drink,doesnt smoke, no drugs, and no medications Id say that is quite possible. However, Im glad you said occassionally cause I think on a constant basis that could be detrimental to his mental health as he's constantly needing stimulation which could lead to sexual addiction and that can always present one to any kind of risk.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (1 November 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntUnless he's doing it on a regular basis, it's nothing to worry about. But 9 times in a day is - well - superhuman.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010):

totally normal at your age. I have spanked it as many as 20 times in one day. Not at all something I do very often at all, but it is possible. As far as sex, well, it honestly takes more work than masturbation, and I have maxed out at 8 times in one day there. I'm in my late 30's and do not come that much now usually.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010):

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No no. Not everyday...in fact he doesn't do it as often anymore but he used to do it once or twice a night and if he was home alone and bored he would do it as many as 9 times. There is no problem with this because he never forces anything on me. I was just worried it could be bad for his health in some way. Or show an underlying addiction.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (31 October 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntOther than chaffage, not really. He's not doing it 9 times a day everyday though is he?

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