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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: i have just started a new relationship with a woman i really fancy and drives me crazy any way last night things got a little steamy to steamy as soon as the word condom got mentioned i went soft and just could not get it hard again i was so embarrised as i wanted to give her the time of her life but no mater what we did but ended up leaving her full of dispointment and extreamly horny. we have spoke about the condoms and i have said that i have never liked wearing them but as we are a new couple its only right we use a condom. how do i get over this condom business so we can injoy each other sexualy and stop the embarrasment
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 October 2010):
Practise alone at putting one on and such. That's the only real thing I can think of that might help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): Ok firstly...you need to talk to her about this in a non sexual time...so when you are just sitting chatting. She will appreciate you being open and communicating with her!
It's normal from what I've heard. I'd suggest you asking her to put it on or something? As for some guys it can get to be too much of an interruption. But could be quite a turn on for you if she helps you. Also try not to overthink it. Rather think of what will happen after you've got it on...haha.
Because you shouldn't not use protection.
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