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writes:ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he didnt reply back after. i saw this msg last night. this is from months ago and i feel so hurt, he isnt friends with this girl on fb but i still worry. is it normal for guys to say things like this when theyre in a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): Hi there,
Firstly there is an answer for your last question as all guys are different. It's definitely not normal behaviour to do that in a public way where you can see it and where it could and has hurt you.
I guess the main issue with this is one of trust. Ultimately you have to ask yourself whether you trust your boyfriend. if you do, then just put it down to someone fooling about. If you don't, then really this isn't even about this one comment, or girl on facebook, it's about feeling secure in your relationship and not having to monitor how he behaves or who he is talking to.
Everyone admires good looking people whether you're a guy or girl, with or without a partner, the test is how considerate you are to the people around you I guess.
I hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): I think he just meant that he found her attractive. Saying he might have to marry her was a joke. Some guys do talk like that sometimes. If it was an old message and he has nothing to do with her, i wouldnt worry too much. You might even have said things privately to a friend about another guy. Something your partner wouldnt like. We all have our 'little moments' so try not to worry. The comment was off the cuff and im sure, NEVER meant to be taken so seriously x
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