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writes:I have a very high sex drive. I don't want to break my promise to God of having premarital sex. I don't want to do any of these things, but I am so tempted. I love this girl. I don't get hard or anything when I look at her or talk to her, but when I look at almost any other girl I get as hard as a diamond in a ice storm and it takes forever for it to go soft again. I know there is masturbation but it seems so... bland. Like there's nothing there, it's like get off, you're done, and you're not completely satisfied. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Well I ended up doing something stupid when I 1st fell for her. I posted all kinds of status' about her on facebook, like saying how beautiful she is and all kinds of other stuff. She found out in her band class from a guy I dislike. He is not one I would hang with. Her and I did talk about it and she said she doesn't like me that way, but hey I'm the same way with people I don't know very well who try asking me out. She needs her space so I'll talk to her and make sure she has plenty.
And about how you talked about the porno and the other stuff, I used to be like really bad with that until I found God and now I feel tempted sometimes and if I fall I repent and and get back up and continue my walk with God.
trancedrhythmear: do you have fb?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): I commend you for your conscience here and values. Nice!
Yeah man you need to start petting the snake n spankin the monkey lol so you can get some release and your temptation goes down. Try to stay away from porn and have natural thoughts of this girl. Porn at your age is not healthy I feel as I went thru some bad experiences with it and it was borderline addiction and affected me. Also, whats stopping you from asking this girl out? You seem like a guy who wont think with his penis and thats way awesome...chances are she'd appreciate that and so that should give u confidence to take her out! Do it man! :D
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Well stop thinking you have a very high sex drive... you're a teenage boy, your sex drive is through the roof- and that's perfectly normal. To say you have a very high sex drive is a hop skip and jump away from justifying to yourself that its ok to break your promise to god- which you clearly value.
If you aren't masturbating then no wonder you're feeling this way, but ultimately its up to you what you choose to do- just try not to do anything that you'll later regret.
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