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I'm terrified to have a child with this man!

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Question - (31 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I been in a relationship for a year. I broke up with the guy cause he was verbally abusive and talk about my child. He was playing on my phone leaving harassing call. Then he stalks me at night making sure that i'm home. He been stalking me. Anyway my car got vandalized and I believe he done it. Neighbors say it was a guy and he has been the only one I been having an issue with. Anyway I found out I was pregnant and I don't know what to do. He makes me feel very uncomfortable and he said if he did it he would have shot my car up. What kind of person would say that. The whole point is he tampered with my car. I could of been on the freeway when it stop and could f been injured or had my daughter in the car. I'm worried bout my safety and my daughter. I'm just worried of what he would do next. What if I have this child would he become more possessive, would he hurt me if things dont go his way.

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (31 October 2010):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntI hope and pray that you have called the police, filed a restraining order and charged this man with stalking-even an attempted manslaughter charge could be put on him as he tampered with YOUR car used to transport you and your daughter. You're not safe, I would suggest you go to a woman's shelter or stay with relatives ASAP. If you have this baby, I hope you take necessary precautions and leave this man's name off the birth certificate. Save all calls, voicemails you have from him. Call your police department and report him, the calls will be evidence. You're in a dangerous situation and have to protect your kids. Please, do not hesitate to report this psycho and stay somewhere else for a while. Please.

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