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Do I stay with my husband or live with my lover of 8 years?

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Question - (31 October 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

To stay with the man I have been married to for 35 years or to move in with the lover of 8 years.

Neither relationship is brilliant but the clock is ticking.

Why am I so unsatisfied with my life?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010):

"Why am I so unsatisfied with my life?"

This is what you need a lot of help with. Go to counseling and work on this issue before you make any decisions, and do it now, treat others fairly, and you will probably begin to learn to like yourself better and understand others better as well.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2010):

You're unsatisfied because rather than take responsibility for your own happiness, you seem to be leaving it in the hands of different men. You're not happy with your husband, and you're not really happy with your lover. You need to make a break from all this. You want to be happy, then stop looking to two men to make it happy, leave both and be single and find out what you're really looking for.

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A male reader, Cccc Antarctica +, writes (31 October 2010):

Cccc agony auntYoure really actually unhappy with yourself in my opinion.Why people think they can find happiness in other people is just beyond me!

What can you do to make your marriage a better and more fulfilling? AND WHY do people always sit around waiting for the other person to make the change why its really something you could have started a long time ago.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010):

... Why would you stay in a relationship to a man for over thirty years if you dont even know for sure if you love him. I mean it's pretty obvious.

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2010):

DrPsych agony auntYou are unsatisfied with your life because you keep making the wrong choices and have to then live with the consequences. Rather than settling for half-measures with a husband that you don't seem to love, or a lover that isn't up to scratch either...there is a third solution! Walk away from both of them and start again as a single woman. Get to know yourself and what you really want. Then don't settle for anything less.

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