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writes:Ok, there is this girl I like a lot, but I would more say it is I love her a lot. She doesn't know I love her. I just want to be friends with her and build a relationship. I am planning to sit at her table at lunch on Monday and I don't know what to talk about. (All the girls are Christian as am I) 1st- I know to go with the flow of their conversations, but if I don't know what they're talking about what should I say or do? 2nd- How would I start a new conversation. 3rd- How do I talk to the girl I love to get to know her at lunch? She is also in my computer class later in the day, she is usually not online or around her phone sometimes so unless we get to know each other in school she probably wont talk much outside of it. 4th- Is it ok to call her cell after school when I know all her extra curricular activities are over? I am just concerned of what she may think and if she may just ignore it or something. Advice would be much much appreciated! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): my pleasure pal. good luck!
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reader, GodLovesForever +, writes (31 October 2010):
GodLovesForever is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you. You are both helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): Youre reading too far into how to talk to women bro, its fairly simple. Its always nice to start conversations with common interests with women...to get them comfortable. Im not saying bullshit them by saying u like desperate housewives lol but by finding their interests you can seriously dig deeper into their personalities. For example, a woman asked me what films I like. Simple question right? Well that lead into another discussion about me taking a film studies class and then that lead into some philosophies I had on life. Just ask simple questions and things will flow.
Yes, call her up. Thats considerate of you and def not stalkerish. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): First. Calm down. Girls don't like guys who are all over them. I think it's awesome you want to get to know her and build a relationship. To do that you need to be her friend. If you are going to sit at her lunch table and try to get in on a conversation that her and her friends are talking about, cool, if you don't know much about the topic of conversation, ask. Be interested. Girls like it when guys are interested in the things they are interested in and when they listen. Actually listen.If she does ignore your call, play it off. Don't mention it to her. The more you act like you don't care, the more she will care. Second. If you don't like the first part, then be honest with her. When you are alone with her, tell her that you like her and would like to be her friend. Maybe go to movies or dinner or both, but just as friends hanging out.Of course if you do this you also risk being put in the friend zone with her.In my experience. I'm a woman, I'm 21, I've always gone after the guys who are confident with themselves and know what they want. I don't know if this helps you, but good luck.
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