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writes:Does ever a man suggest to 'have sex for fun' even if he is truly interested in a woman ? Or is this always a sign that he has no emotional interest in her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 If he was truly interested why would he say "for fun"??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): VERY good question and I found myself in this not too long ago. Sex is serious biz for me...however it is also fun and I would only do that with someone who I felt extremely comfortable with i e def had an emotional interest in. I held back on it cause im not gonna let an emotion drive my decision...it didnt make sense yet anyway, to be with her in such a way so imma play the patience card and wait things out.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Not always. Not in every case it doesn't, but in most it does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): Well~I really don't maintain that question is gender determinant, as I believe both male and female are capable of the same type of ulterior motive(s) when it comes to sexual gratification be it strictly physical, emotional or a combination of both.With respect to your query, the only way to actually know the truth to such question would be by ask it of the party extending the gesture..Keep in mind however, not all people are honest and will simply tell you what you want to hear as a means to satisfy his/her own end.Perhaps I am incorrect but I perceive you are not one who shares yourself freely when it comes to sex and requires that there be a mutual emotional attraction/interest. If I am correct, stick by your guns and take it slow responding "Yes.". Trust me on this one, as a woman who respects and values herself, refraining from jumping at the extension saved me and simultaneously unvieled a disheartening truth.
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