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writes:hey aunts and uncles. I've been on here before and got some great advice. I just got a couple questions. my friend (pretty much my sister) is in some trouble. she's currently breaking up with the father of her child. she is in love with an old friend of hers. she doesn't want too make the break up about her old friend. she's just not in love with him anymore and doesn't want too rob him of his chance at finding true happiness. her words exactly. she has agreed too joint custody of th child. even tho she's fallen for somebody else she has said she doesn't love her current boyfriend for the last two years. I've been there for her these past two years and have given her the best advice that I could. now her soon ex is not giving up. she doesn't want too fight or make this difficult but he is. I don't know what too tell her. any advice I should pass along? and my second problem is that I was in love with a girl who had a boyfriend, she had the same feelings towards me but she has a history with the other. I told her that I couldn't come in between them and I can't be her friend anymore because of that. so I've been gettin over it. at the same time my friend from before has a sister who broke up with her boyfriend and my friend has been trying too set us up together. but the breakup is still fresh. should I even try. I know her sister and we do get along verry well better than my friend herself. should I give this time? if so how will I know she's ready? or should I even do thru with this?
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reader, Araelia V  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 First of all tell your friend that if her ex wants a fight give him one. It's not her fault that she's not into him anymore, people change, their likes and dislikes change. She needs to move on and if he's not letting her she should fight for it.
Secondly, if you feel that you cannot be with this girl then you should move on but if you at all feel that the next girl could just be a rebound then you should tell her how you feel. The pain won't last forever and neither will your feeling towards this girl.
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