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writes:its a bit of a long story but here goes..last year when i was 14, i went out with a guy that was 17, i really liked him and we fell in love with each other.after a while of being with him his boss somehow found out about the relationship, see he works at a primary school and apparently when you work with kids u cant go out with anyone under the age of 16.well they told him that he either finished with me or he lost his job and got reported to the police as a possible peodophile.but it was never like that between the two of us anyway, we just simply loved each other and wanted to be together.anyway we broke up and were both really upset about it...i was badly depressed for months afterwards and am still sort of upset about it now, im still not quite over it.a few months ago, he got with another girl and dont get me wrong i was upset but i just want him to be happy. we still spoke and everything and were still very close, well his girlfriend warned me off and told me she didnt like how close me and him where and she tried to turn him and a few of my other friends against me but it didnt work and we are still close.over the past few weeks me and him have been getting closer and spending more time together...and theres been a few times where we have ended up making out.he told me that he still has feelings for me, that he always has...and im still madly in love with him, hes all i ever think about.but the fact is, that in a way he cheated on his girlfriend with me.and we got caught once as well.i dont want him to get ear ache of his girlfriend.he said to me a while ago that he likes his girlfriend but isnt in love with her.he said that if he could be with me then he would but he cant.i just dont know what to do anymore, all i want to do is be with him but as more than a kiss and a cuddle whenever we are alone.even if he didnt have that job and i could be with him there is his girlfriend to think about, he doesnt want to hurt her.ppllzz help!! :S
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Well i think the fact is that he is craving for a girlfriend right now, and he wants that to be you, and hes falling for you alot. but because of his job, he has someone else, and is using you until either you both get fed up of it, or until your 16. so i think you should talk to him about how you feel, and ask him why he wont break up with his girlfriend if he says he doesnt love her, as its affecting you, as you dont really want to be the one she will end up crying about every night for taking her boyfriend.
so all is needed here is some talking, and undesrstanding.
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