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writes:So here i am again, and my question is in big contrast to the other one. Me and my girlfriend decided that we were going to take some time off from dating so she could get some aspects of her life on track. The thing is i really, really miss her. and she's one of my regular friends as well, so i see her everyday. It's just so hard not to think about her. What can i do to somewhat suppress my feelings until we get back together? Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): Ahh, sorry, I did not realise you had known her longer.
Love makes the situation harder for you. But you can do it, be patient and be there for her as a friend. Remeber that your time will come if it was meant to be. Right now you need to focus on yourself.
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reader, arandomguywholikesagirl +, writes (2 March 2010):
arandomguywholikesagirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot. i'll try to keep my mind on other things. it's just really hard. it's just every time i hear my favorite song (creed-my sacrifice) i think about her. it's just sooooooooooooo hard. and what you said about the other girl's response was actually little bit wrong. i have actually really loved this girl for a very long time.And she says that if i knew what she likes to do, i wouldn't love her. But i just don't think she understands me. I know you might think that it's too early to really and truly love someone, but to me, i just can't help myself for falling for her. she's just amazing in every way......... ok so maybe this isn't gonna help me from keeping my feelings away, but i'll try just as hard as i can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): I replied on your other thread.
But I'll write here too.
Try and focus on hobbies. Is there anything you really like doing? Arts, sports, watching films? Find your favorite thing to do and try spend some time focusing on this. This should help take your mind off her.
If you have another group of friends you should try doing more with them too. Keep yourself busy.
Cross your fingers that the power doesn't go out again, eh ? ;P.
Luck. x
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