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writes:Okay, so I'm a middle-aged guy and I e-mailed this woman I went to high school with to see if she wanted to get together and chat sometime. She said she was busy with work, etc., and then finally e-mailed me that "I reeeally want to get together soon" and would write me when she was free.That was 4 months ago and I haven't heard a thing since.I'd like to see her, but I feel like the ball's in her court...Do you think she just wants to be 'chased' even though we have a platonic friendship?Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): Alot could have happened in her life in four months, so I would take her "busy with work and other things" as a sure no. There are plenty more fish in the see where she came from, so if you don't hear from her, don't feel too let down. There might be 20 or 100 more no's, but who cares about them, because it's the 1 or 2 yes's that count.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 March 2010):
4 months on, she's not really interested. Don't worry about and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): It doesn't sound like she wants anything if it's been 4 months. She doesn't want to see you. Just don't give a crap and be happy :)
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reader, kissyheart  +, writes (2 March 2010):
i guess probably even you must be thinking that she is not interested cuz see its 4 months and she didnt even contact you or something so its better if you don't expect anything from her and move on..
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