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*aizaabc
writes:Hi all plz help me! I getting married soon but i never had sex can you help me how can i have good sex in my married life? How can i please my hubby and what are the interesting method of sex? Plz help me. Thank you all ! Reply to this Question
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reader, angelgal077  +, writes (3 March 2010):
Try playing with yourself some so that you can learn what excites you and what doesn't. You've probably already gone over several different scenario in your head but those are never the same as real life so you need to find out what your body wants, not your mind. For your first time don't pressure yourself. He will think your wonderful no matter what you do. It is called making love for a reason, by doing this you will be as close to the man you love as you can possibly be. You actually have an advantage over most people because your still pure, you will be able to understand the true meaning of sex at a far deeper level then most people.
But seeing as it is your first time i should warn you that, physically, it probably won't be that great for you. That part comes later for us females. But for your husband it will be the most pleasure that he has ever felt in his life, and that is something only you can give him. Even though it won't feel that wonderful on the outside, there is nothing that feels more emotional than this, and that is the trick to having a beautiful wedding night. So don't worry so much about the physics and focus more on the chemistry. But if you are still worried, practice with yourself and read some books on different positions. Sex is a workout so get your legs in shape before hand and you'll be fine.
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