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anonymous
writes:ok the question i need to know is should i stay or leave? I have been with this guy for 6 and a half years and have three kids with him. Im only 21 and i want to get married and i feel like im wasting my time. He always tells me he does not want to get married but he is the father of my kids and i love him. I just need to hear from other people if im trying to make something work thats not going to. Also he has cheated three times that i know of, but swears he wont do it again and he loves me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): It's really important that your kids have a father who wants to be with them and be their father. Fathers are key to kids (especially daughters') self esteem. The main thing is that he spends some time with them. So at least find out whether he wants this too.
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reader, kissyheart  +, writes (2 March 2010):
you already knoe the answer ya he cheated on you that also 3 times how can you trust him again.he is not ready to marry you then what kind of a father he is who is not responsible for his own kids.you are just 21 right now you have your whole life ahead ya.i guess you should just leave him and move on its gonna be hard but its better for you and your kids future right?
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