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41-50,
*lassslippers
writes: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. Our relationship has not been great. He drinks constantly and I know he has messed with drugs since we have been together. He got laid off from his job and gets unemployment but still says he doesn't have money. We always eat Fast food. Well My sister gave me a 100 dollar bill for my birthday. I was using it as a bookmarker in a book I was currently reading cause I knew I wouldn't lose it there. Well I noticed it was missing from my book, which was under a couple of magazines in my room, where my boyfriend had some alone time. He is the only person who has been here. That night he went out for a steak dinner with his brother and out to eat the next day at another not inexpensive restaurant. I have looked everywhere for it!!! I mentioned it to him and he changed the subject, then acted like it was nothing and got off the phone with me shortly thereafter.... I KNOW HE TOOK IT, but can't prove it! I know he will flip out when I say something... What should I say to him about it? PLEASE HELP!
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reader, glassslippers +, writes (3 March 2010):
glassslippers is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your wonderful answers. I broke up with him last night and although I will miss some things about him I still know I did the right thing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 March 2010):
Girl, it is time to move on now. Stop waiting for him to change into a decent guy. Accept he is a drunk druggie who has nicked your money, and just get away from him. Say nothing, just go. It's time to move on with your life and find a man who really does love you.
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