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*oblondie1
writes:okay so my bestfriends boyfriend likes me and i like him. we always look at each other with "the look" when were hanging out and sometimes we touch each other when were with his girlfriend too but we can both tell we like each other. yesterday was the first time we really told each other we really liked each other. i know he would cheat on her with me and i wanna do stuff with him too because i really like him but i feel so bad about my friend!!! he also was like what would happen if i broke up with her and me and you started dating, would she never talk to you again? what should i do? and please dont give me the answer "how would u feel if it was u in ur friends place and she was with your boyfriend" i already know how i would feel but it doesnt change the fact that i really like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Wow thank god your not my best friend. You are a bad best friend. Sure go be with him. you'll kill two birds with one stone. You'll steal your "best" friends boyfriend and you will lose her as well. Seems like the best option because your "friend" doesn't deserve to have friends like you. Good luck.
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reader, Cheeks +, writes (3 March 2010):
 If you value your friendship with your BESTfriend then I would avoid HER boyfriend as much as possible. She'll never trust you again and beside girl, he obviously doesnt think much of cheating on his girl if he's telling you he likes you while he's dating her. If you do go through with it what's going to stop him from getting interested in another chick while you two are together? Probably nothing. And you'll have lost your best friend also. Don't date him, lose interest, keep your friendship & I would even suggest letting you BESTfriend know her man's a dog. Us chicks have to stick together. Don't be fooled by him, he's a player. Your friend doesnt desrve to be betrayed by the two closest people in her social crowd. Good luck & I hope you do the right thing.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 March 2010):
I wont' ask you the obvious question that you have already thought about. I'll ask you the smarter one. How could you trust a guy who was willing to cheat on his girlfriend with her best friend? The answer is you couldn't. He would without a doubt do it to you. Leave him well alone, unless you want to end up alone without a best friend and a boyfriend, because this kind of male will hurt you. He is untrustworthy.
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