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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:PLEASE read all of it.Don't give me she just wants to be friends crap because this is more than friend behaviour. Either she is playing me or there are other things going on behind the scenes.I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of talking to her she said she just wanted to be friends. But I still wasn't very confident around her as I kept stuttering. I feel she may have rejected me because she didn't know me that well but she shows these signs:Whenever I say hi to her or wave she smiles when I'm with other people. But when I'm alone she smiles and say's hi.Is fine approaching other guys to talk.When I talk to her she speaks in a softer tone and quietly. As sometimes its hard for me to understand her.Her head is tilted slightly to the side when I talk to her and she put her hand under her hair and started to play with it and then tucked it behind her ear.When I'm flirting with another girl in class she goes quiet and looks over.The following day after playfully flirting with a girl. I saw her with her best friend and as soon as she saw me she turned away and put headphonesin. Probably if I said hi she would ignore me her best friend also looked at the both of us.If I'm alone in the classroom without any of my friends. She will look at me and smile.She occasionally also stops and looks at me.But about 9-8months ago I used to text her a lot and most of the time she wouldn't reply but would still smile at me the next time I saw her.The real problem is I was supposed to tell her how I felt about 2 months ago when I asked her to talk at first she was beaming from ear to ear and then she looked confused but the problem was my friend was there at the time.But I'm unsure if she is trying to keep our friendship by seeming interested and not really being interested as she has a quite a few guy friends and she doesn't really talk to me like she does to them and so we have had around 4 periods of not speaking to each other. Because it really annoys me.For example she can talk to a group of 4 guys but won't approach me with others around including her friends. Sometimes I will go up to her so we can start talking again and then sometimes she will say hi to me so we start talking again.She also used to stare at me every time she entered the room but she very rarely does that now. She used also repeatedly turn around and look at me on occasions when we were lining up for the bus instead of talking to her best friend.Then a few weeks ago I asked for her mobile phone number and she asked me to pass my phone to her and she put the number into my phone. I also asked to add her on facebook and she sort of smiled, laughed and said "just do it." I also asked her what asked her what she was doing this weekend and she said on Saturday she is working.Then my friend came along at first the girl went silent then all of us started having a conversation in the classroom my friend then started talking about valentine's day started laughing and hit me this lead to me and the girl just responded 'yeah.' The girl then said "looks like i'll be going to singles night" she then also began talking about how couples go to her workplace and whisper to each other following this she said about 2 minutes later she said that she is not working on sunday and might go to her Nan's. I don't if this was because she wanted me to ask her out. But when I asked her out she just smiled and said she was working on sunday.The following week If I look at her she stares back at me. For example she will be sitting down talking with friends and then she will stare at me. Then today I was waiting outside the classroom alone she looked at me gave me a little smile but didn't say anything but I am still really angry with her as I feel she is using me. But we are back at one of those periods when we are not speaking to each other not even saying hi. Nevertheless I keep getting told I love her but I don't know what to do.
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reader, bow46 +, writes (2 March 2010):
Well I will try not to give her as much attention. But I may tell her how I feel in a few weeks as only have 3-4 months to do this.
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (2 March 2010):
She just messin around man. Beat her at her own game and play it cool. Don't try to make her jelouse just when she tried to make you jelous play it cool. Do you see what I'm getting at? If you try to make her jelouse she might get mad. Don't give her so much attention and she will then try to make you jelouse. When it doesn't work she will come to you. Trust me man
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