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writes:how can u tell if someone likes if even though they are not aloudd to be attracted to you?im basically inlove and im positve i am with my schools resource officer.. i use to think it was jus comfort i was feeling but i KNO i love him..the problem is he is 30 and im 17..when im in the hallway he looks at me and smiles.. when ever i come up to him he smiles and jokes around with mee.. he came to my class to tlk about sexting and when we were writing what was on the boardd and when i looked up he was staring at me but he hurried up and looked away..when im in his office and i get up to leave i can see him out the corner of my eye looking at my butt which i should say is big (im spanish) he looks down my shirt at my breast when he thinks im not looking (they are also big) we tlk about EVERYTHINGG.. even my sex life...i have been through a lot and he knows all about it.. i know he cares for me beacues him being a cop he trys to keep me out of trouble.. but i WANT something MORE..he is diff from most guys smart, funny, adorable, sweet, caring and nothing like the guys i go out with..i mean nothing at all i would never look twice at him and that sounds bad, but when i got to kno him everything changed.. he is married soo it wouldnt work but i cant stop caring about him.. he means alot to me and i cant lose him.. but i graduate next year.. is their any chance that he could feel the same way and how do you know how men feel about u without them saying anything?
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reader, ChantillyMarie  +, writes (3 March 2010):
He's also 30 odd, and you're still a teenager. Slow down, calm down, and don't lay a hand on him.It's concidered pedophillia, if you do anything with him.He might not be "looking at your butt" and you're just simply being too self absorbed. So, honestly. Will you please just focus on your school work, and stop worrying on a man?By the way, I have to say, you should report him "looking down your shirt" to someone. You're a minor. It's not right for him to be doing such things to you, even if you like him.
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