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Tips on controlling my outburst during an orgasm

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Question - (2 March 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2010)
A female Ireland age 26-29, anonymous writes:

okay, so here it goes. i am 13 and have recently started masturbating. i have orgasms every single time and its hard not to moan or sometimes scream with pleasure! i usually do it when my parents are asleep or when im by myself. do you know anyways to keep it quiet. my parents are light sleepers! p.s. i need new methods of pleasuring my self! i've done fingering! any ideas? xx

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A female reader, ChristineAvril United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2010):

ChristineAvril agony auntThe last time I used this technique, my legs were actually shaking. That’s how strong the orgasm was! I take off all my clothes and I go into the bathroom. I masturbate in the bathroom whenever I can, so there’s a smaller chance of getting caught. Turn on the water in the tub so its fairly warm but not too hot. You don’t want to burn your precious pussy! Put your legs up on the wall and lean back on your elbows. Stick your pussy right under the water. Move it back and forth, up and down, till you get orgasm. This only takes a few seconds for me. It feels great!

Have fun!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (4 March 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntFor bursting pipes of any kind I suggest duct tape, and it now comes in so many lovely colors.

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A female reader, dorothy2342 United States +, writes (4 March 2010):

dorothy2342 agony auntSorry q1605, Masturbation party of one:) As far as the screaming, do it when your at home alone and then let it rip. If your not alone keep to deep moan or groan, with the door locked and music for noise control. Enjoy

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A female reader, dorothy2342 United States +, writes (3 March 2010):

dorothy2342 agony auntRunning water from a bath tub faucet or from a hand held shower head over your clit. The stronger the flow of water the greater the stimulation. A bath or shower will never be so satisfying. It's better than a vibrator.

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A male reader, Faraday United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2010):

Faraday agony auntPoint taken, "q". but I am rather miffed at being blocked by DC and felt that they were being too controlling, if it's what members want.

But I agree with you about the safety of the young - it should be paramount.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2010):

Miamine agony auntThe bathroom is a great place to have an orgasm, you can flush the toilet or keep the water running, this helps cover any sounds you will make... (also good place to drown irritating men like Q)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

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thank you everybody for your help!

but now i need new techniques! i hav gotten bored with fingering! please help me with this one!!

ps can u please put it into detail!!

xxxx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2010):

Bite on a pillow. But certainly don't suppress it by holding your mouth shut!

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A female reader, Sharon1111 Australia +, writes (2 March 2010):

Sharon1111 agony auntYou don't have to make a big noise. That isn't part of the deal. Just as you can sing loud or soft, you can decide how loudly you vocalise when having an orgasm. Restraining your vocalising will not hinder your ability to orgasm or enjoy sex or a sexual experience. Being able to choose and moderate is the sign of a true expert.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (2 March 2010):

Bite your pillow, but PLEASE do not teach yourself to suppress yourself. You need to be able to keep that part of your orgasm alive and well. All too often kids teach themselves to orgasm in such a way that no one will hear them (guys can learn to cum so quick, that they can't get a girl off)... all thinking about not getting caught.

So, bit the pillow and let it rip... you're very lucky, as many women can't cum nearly this easy!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

Well i'm 14 and I've been masterbating for a while and usually what I donis just rub my clit. It works really well. Or even if you can find something that vibrates alot you put it on your clit. Good luck!

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (2 March 2010):

Not My Name agony auntUmm, maybe bite your pillow to muffle any noise you are making.

Or, just focus even harder on keeping your mouth shut. One day you might have children and will find it a necessary skill to acquire lol.

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