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*arlene02
writes: I been married for 4 years i have a a 6 month old girl. My husband drinks to much and i suspect hes using drugs he never wants to take me out anywhere. He just wants to go out and drink with his friends and forgets about us should i leave him or not?
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reader, nessabarela505 +, writes (2 March 2010):
Take action. Don't just sit there and wait for to come back home intoxicated he is not respecting you as a woman or as the mother of his child he is not acting like a grown man should act. Doesn't it bother you to see him under the influence.. myself personally I hate people that drink and drink and just becom so dam stupid it anoys the hell outta me. Think about your child and yourself. If he is doing drugs I suggest rehab before it gets worst.
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reader, Lexie88 +, writes (2 March 2010):
He's not giving you what you need and you should consider leaving him, especially if he is taking drugs.
Before you do so, make sure that you have the social and financial support to survive on your own with a small child. Plan ahead and you should be ok.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 March 2010):
Tell him it has to change. If it doesn't, then leave. And if you find he is taking drugs, definitely leave. Give him the ultimatum and mean it.
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