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writes:I was seeing a guy I really like before I went to Thailand for a month, came home and seen him once.. then he didnt contact me again... up until a few days ago 3/4 weeks later) He always called me on private number so although I deleted his number (so i wouldnt be tempted to contact him) I know it was him.. he called about ten times in 2 days but I didnt pick up... NOW I WISH I DID, just so I know why he decided to ignore me for so long??Its been 5 days since he last called.. do you think he'll call again considering I havent picked up, and do you think I should just forget this guy and move on? I'm thinking another girl must be involved :Sxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 March 2010):
I think you were right to move on. He didn't contact you for nearly a month, so it was cleat that something had changed. Better to move on than to have an unreliable man in your life.
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reader, hyperbunny +, writes (2 March 2010):
hyperbunny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhen i got back from thailand and saw him once i called and texted him and he didnt reply, and so that I wouldnt be tempted to keep calling him.. I deleted his number...
He isnt on facebook either...
surely the fact that he ignored me for 3 or 4 weeks if understandable for why I didnt want to speak to him at the time..
I do know where he lives.. would it be stalkerish to post a note through his door??
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reader, Tinko  +, writes (2 March 2010):
My dear, i have been in your shoes n it can be annoying if u do not know a guy's stand. also it seems ur not sure of ur feelings 4 him and at the same time u are giving the guy the wrong message by not picking his calls. my advice is if u love him let him know n if he stil ignores u gal move on. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): what do you mean you delete this guys number so you wouldnt be tempted? cant you just keep it written down, what about his e-mail or facebook or some other form of contact?
why does he always call on a private number too, and why didnt you pick up if you like him? even if its just to say go-away.
i doubt he will call again for a while, u seem confused and its not fair on him either, why should you be concerned another girl is involved? uv not really given him much communication or anything for a girlfriend or someone thats in a relationship with him. your just a friend, get over him.
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