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writes:So me and this boy have been messing around for almost a year...i havnt done anything with anybody else and he hasnt either and he lives at my house.wouldnt you call that a relationship? because to him we are still friends with benifits (i think relationship)..i just dont no how to get it through his head that i love him and i wanna be with him for the rest or my life. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 March 2010):
Sounds like he's just having his cake and eating it to me. It's worth talking to him about going exclusive, but don't hold your breath. Talk to him and see what he says.
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reader, kitty8199 +, writes (2 March 2010):
Been there done that. If he isn't going for it he wants his cake and eat it too. He wants you, but if he makes you his girlfriend, he can't be with anyone else. It's like a cheating loophole. It's not technically cheating now. Move on, I know it hurts, and you want him, and felt like you have a relationship now. The thing that makes guys want you more, is when they can't have you. Take a few steps back, even date. He may decide to commit if he feels you will move on. Or he may not, but then you know he isn't worth it.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (2 March 2010):
 If you want this guy to take you seriously and see you as girlfriend material, then I suggest you stop "messing about" with him. He dosen't have to make a commitment to you, your doing stuff already and your not asking for anything back.
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (2 March 2010):
 Really? He lives in your house? Odd situation...Have you actually asked him about a relationship yet? Or are you just assuming that's not what he wants? If you've already talked about it and he has already said no, chances are that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and you should move on.
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