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Have I messed up here?

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Question - (2 March 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *katie25 writes:

I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year about 5 months ago and immediately met up with this other boy as that is just my way of getting over things.

I went out for a drink with this boy, he was very nice.. paid for everything but in my head all i wanted was a "sex buddy" relationship as i wasn't over my ex.(even though i did really like this boy as well.. but not on the same level ofcourse)

This meant that whenever this boy asked me to do things involving his friends and stuff i would make exuses and whenever he asked me what i wanted to do when we were together i would suggest going back to his for obvious reasons.

Anywayyy as you can imagine.. ive definitely got the sex buddy relationship i wanted however i have now started to fall for him. He now rarely suggests doing other things besides meeting for sex....

We do however talk very often and he always asks me how i am etc and remembers little things ive told him about me .. and when we're together (before sex) its always really good and we mess around/hug and stuff. Also during sex he'll do things like put his forehead against mine..

But like i've said he doesn't suggest doing anything else anymore.. do you think i've messed everything up by avoiding any sort of involvement in the beginning or do you think there is still a chance?

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