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Is it ok to tell my gf that I fantasize about a MFM threesome with her and another guy?

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Question - (2 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it ok to tell my gf that I fantasize about a MFM threesome with her and another guy?

I am in college with my gf and we have been going out for about 2 years.

Lately I have been thinking about what it would be like to have a threesome with my gf and another guy. (no gay stuff, totally straight)

Is this normal for a guy to think about with his gf after being together for a while?

Since we have been going out for about 2 years does anyone think it is ok to tell her about this to see if she would be interested in trying it?

Do women think of MFM threesomes as being something fun to do sometimes with their bf’s?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010):

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Thank you everyone for your replys.

I decided to talk about my thoughts of having a threesome with with my girl friend.

She always told me that I could tell her anything, and when I brought up the threesome she seemed a little surprized, but not negative at all.

My girl friend also told me that she would be willing to try a threesome, but only if we took things very slowly. Maybe only kissing and foreplay things at first.

So that is where we are so far.

Thanks everyone for writing. Please let me know if you have any other advice.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

if you two were married then I would have said no don't do it because such affairs always endup with a broken marriage but since she is your gf and if she agrees to it then go ahead and do it because she will like it immensely. It is only you who will be jelous especially if the guy is better endowed than you and she gives him more attention during the act.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2010):

It depends how open minded she is. Usually, a fantasy like this is better left as a secret fantasy, because a lot of things can go wrong later down the line.

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