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Is it worth pursuing?

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Question - (2 March 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male Belgium age 30-35, anonymous writes:

In the real world we live in, if two people start working together, one has a happy family but is not married and the other single and a complete mess but very capable of being amazing with the right events happening in his life, one is the manager and the other is the rookie, one is really great and the other could be really great, both have the ability to love with sparks in their eyes and both of them have the kindness at heart, together they're strangers by facts but companions by personality, apart they're different than when together, combined they're capable of loving through the heart but for now they're scared to take that little chance where the risk might be too big...

One is a girl with a simple stable life that brings her enough happiness, the other is a guy with a beaten heart and barely anything left close... Is this worth trying for? Is it worth taking a shot?

Because I don't know anymore. My heart says yes but my sense says it's too selfish and too risky. My heart wants to get to know her to her soul but is afraid it might ruin a happy family. I won't hurt her or anything, in fact I will cherish her and be the best I can be for her which I am confident is a lot, I've proven that to myself a number of times.

Only I'm so scared for what may come with it. I'm definitly ready to face demons but I don't want her life to be completely changed for the chance when it doesn't work out. I'm incapable of working this out.

It's been a month that I'm thinking about this all earnestly and I can't come to a conclusion :( pls help..

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