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writes:so here is the story. I was lab partners with this girl all semester, she had a bf of 5 years (complete loser duchebag drug addict but very very wealthy). I never hit on her because i respected the fact that she was with someone. we always had a connection. anyways the semester ends and she gets in touch with me telling me that she broke up with her bf and we should hangout.We hit it off and things go great, during the whole time i always asked her if she needed time to get over her ex, but she convinced me that she was done with him and kept pushing us forward to meet my parents and my friends.....she was always honest with me and i completely appreciated that. anytime he tried to get in touch with her she told me and ignored it or told him to stop. so i do trust her word.Anyways a month and half into the relationship, she is going through tough times with her school and life in general. she tells me she needs to talk to me about her ex in the morning, later on in the day get a text that "we rushed into this, and i need to be alone right now" i knew right away it was something with the ex and i spoke to her and she told me everything.I was very upset, but i went out that night. the next day we talk and she tells me she hooked up with her ex. I was angry and i slept with one of my old hook up buddies. later on that night she starts telling me how she wants me back and she wishes she could fix it all. I ignored her until i get a call at 230 am with her crying and telling me how much she wants to talk to me and fix things...I went to her house the next day, we spend two days together and now we are back. but this is in the back of my mind, do you guys think i should give it a second chance?I know she isnt the cheater type who would just hook up with me and move on to the next bf, and she never did that to her ex. We always had a strong connection and she always told me things between them had been over for months. he treated her very badly always. Few nights ago she told me, she had met different guys when she dated her bf for all that time, and some of them were very good looking, but there was something about me that drew her this way.Alil about me, i have never had a gf. i slept with as many girls as i could and screwed tons of them over. i do feel bad about it at times but that was my way until this girl came around. i was always physically there for her, but emotionally not so much. and thats why this whole thing happened. im gonna up my game and try to be there for her from now on and we talked about this. should i keep dating her? In the back of my mind i really do, because im starting to have feelings for her and i understand how bad of a situation she was in. she loves me and she has already said so, and told me i should understand her situation and be back with her. she apologized a million times. what do you guys think? i wanna give it a second chance but i dont want to feel like an idiot later
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